Kay Spencer
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Kay Spencer

Thursday, January 19th, 1961 - Sunday, June 21st, 2020

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Kay C. Spencer, 59, passed away unexpectedly on Sunday, June 21, 2020.

Born in Constableville, NY, Kay was the daughter of the late Myron and Mae (Damuth) Buck. A graduate of Fort Plain High School, Kay attended Fulton Montgomery Community College.

Kay loved spending time on the farm. Growing up she would fish on her dad’s pond, ride horses bareback, and pick wild strawberries. As an adult, she loved cooking for her family and friends, and was known for turning a house into a welcoming home.

A wonderful mother, Kay is survived by her beloved children, Laura V. Lourenco (Daniel) of Norwood, MA, Kristina L. Vecchio (Benjamin Hovey) of Schenectady and Brian A. Vecchio (Kathryn Reynders) of Altamont, her siblings Rose Buck of Canajoharie, Alan Buck and wife Kathy of Fonda, Anita Cirtwell and her husband (Richard) of Sprakers, Cathleen Cables of Mohawk, and Gerry King of Sprakers, as well as 3 grand dogs, 2 grand cats and many nieces and nephews.

Kay wishes to spend eternity at the ocean, so her ashes will be spread during a private ceremony at a later date.

In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the National Multiple Sclerosis Society, 421 New Karner Rd, Albany, NY 12205 in Kay’s memory.

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Jamie Buck

Love and prayers to the family. I wish I would have had the opportunity to spend one last time with you, you've taught me so much over the years. This is so heartbreaking. I love you Aunt Kay!
Comment | Posted at 02:23am via Condolence

Cathy Acquilla

I will always remember her meals she would bring down to our community room and her sweet kind voice.
Comment | Posted at 06:35pm via Condolence

Joyce & Wayne

Laura, Kristina & Brian,
We were shocked and saddened to read of your Mom's unexpected passing. We saw your Mom, probably about a month ago and had a chance to chat for a bit. She said she was doing well and she smiled while she told us how you all were doing and how incredibly proud she was of all of you. We remember the wonderful cook your Mom was, we still enjoy a couple of her recipes that she shared.
We will always remember your Mom for the hard working quiet spoken person she was. Please know we are grieving your loss and hope that you may find some comfort and peace during this difficult time. Joyce & Wayne
Comment | Posted at 11:47am via Condolence

Robin Elizabeth

Kay, May you find peace, In the arm's of our Lord. Robin and George.
Comment | Posted at 07:44am via Condolence

Robin Elizabeth

Kay, You will be missed, more then you will ever know. You were truly my best friend. Love Bob.
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